Engagement & Wedding Wishes : introduction
When Engagement & Wedding Wishes are the First Essence of the Wedding Wednesday tradition , then it is like that of making the formal introduction of the Bride & Groom .
Hence , Bride & Groom are the personification of the elements of the First Essence , Engagement & Wedding Wishes .
It is the tradition of the gentleman to propose to the woman , the lady in waiting .
So then , in that respect , Engagement is with the Groom . While on the other hand , Wedding Wishes , of wishful thinking , of the dream realms , of wedding fantasy , may be with the Bride .
At the introductory phase of any human relationship it would seem almost inappropriate to make a proposal at the instant of meeting someone . However , maybe there may be the exceptions when it comes to Love, Wedding , & Marriage in the modern world .
Is there such a thing as love at first sight ? To the romantic at heart , that kind of passionate love happens , like that of an instance of Fate Destiny , knowing that one`s love interest was written in the stars , it was meant to be .
At this moment of first meeting then , we are in the dark , not knowing who each other is . This describes the situation of the Blind Date . Maybe someone who knows someone else of some social family circle of connections , makes an arrangement that the two could somehow meet .
In the Western , well maybe modern American sense of the Love at First Sight phenomena , it is an intuitive thing , one just knows when the Love interest is perfect , hard to describe , it must have experience they say .
Then the question does naturally arise , how do we reconcile the animosity , the lack of knowingness between the two strangers ? Well , the answer could be simple , in terms of the Eastern , oriental tradition , of the Far East ( Korea ) . Seon ( Sun ) , the arrangement of a date meeting between two prospective Bride & Groom couples ,with the chance of marriage , cloudy with a chance of meatballs is the anecdotal reference . Koryeana Ancients did , still do believe that somewhere out there , that perfect mate is waiting for you . When that Seon ( Sun ) does come , that time of Fate Destiny when the two meet, when the Cosmos , the universe feels that the moment and timing and place is right , it seems the two were meant to be together , like the decorative yarn , string tassles of the Bride & Groom . When it is a match made in Heaven , everything seems to be agreeable . Okay then , let us say that she is his Miss Princess Perfect , and he is her Prince Charming Perfect . When love may be in the eyes of the beholders , they have mutual feelings of physical attractiveness , then in those respects , the match made in Heaven may be possible , a prefect mix of both ancient Eastern , & Western traditions , Love at first sight at Seon ( Sun ) , then romance is like a hot pot that slows to a simmering boil of passion with time , getting to know you type of thing :) … is it possible to be still dating one`s wife for ten years after marriage , still falling in passionate love with each other ? lol ;) … Shall the Bride & Groom have that happy waltz then ? ;) … More on Fate Destiny later on then heum ;) …
Initial wish may be that Seon ( Sun ) , could be as perfect as this :) …
Koryeana traditon of Seon ( Sun ) :)
Bride :)
Bride & Groom , that happy waltz :) …